Despite Cymaphore's reservations about the Nano-Fits I think I'll give them a try. They're reasonably cheap (the headers are in the 80p - £1.50 range for the sizes I need), reasonably skookum and a better fit for what I'm doing and how I'm trying to do it than anyone else has suggested.
I have to admit may opinion is based on production line experience in our manufacturing. Very high number of crimps done by assembly operators.
For the molex contacts we had a lot more faulty parts than average and I had to put a couple of additional procedures for them in place to ensure the same level of quality than with other contacts.
So based on procedures, processing time and faults it is a much more expensive and less favorable contact from my point of view. High production numbers shift priorities, things have to be repeatable reliable even in the hands of non-engineers.
If an engineer carefully creates a hand full of crimps, it's probably much less problematic in comparison.