daughter has serious health issues, found out yesterday, the issue was misdiagnosed and she may need my help for the next couple of years (or even beyond). No window of opportunity, I am cancelling ALL my plans for moving out and I am looking for a house near to her ...
That kind of thing is every parent's nightmare. My daughter has faced serious problems twice, and may do again, so I have a little understanding of what you must be going through.
We tend to have a view of life that it will go according to our plan. It starts off that way, but then on some random day a fragmentation bomb explodes, and everything changes.
Sometimes life just sucks, and there's nothing you can do about it.
I wish I could offer more help than giving my best wishes.