your view on racism might be a bit different if you were a white woman somewhere in Northern Germany trying to fill up your car and being threatened because you were not wearing a head scarf and you were driving a car in the first place.
(This happened at Cloppenburger Straße in Oldenburg, similar thing happened in Ingelheim, City Center). Ingelheim is the town where the police throws you out of their police station if you want to report a rape. They would not file a police report and investigate.
Your experience may differ ...
There is always 2 sides to the story. And we all made different experiences in our lifes. Even though it seems that I have a subscription on shit happening to me.
I'm struggling here a bit, are you saying then that Northern Germany is a coloured area and that they discriminate against white people, white women in particular who aren't wearing head scarfs and are a car driver? I was under the impression that is us whites who were supposed to be guilty of being racists.
I'm with AVGresponding here:
"Racism is not a disease that exclusively affects white people."
But I don't see the point in declaring rape crime as racist just because a black coloured man rapes a white coloured woman. That's just crime.
The son of good friends (16yo) has a brown coloured skin and black, curly hair.
His mother is German, his father is black coloured.
He's born in Germany, raised up in Germany, speaks German without any accent (like his mother) but he doesn't feel German.
In fact, he speaks of himself as "wir Ausländer..." (we aliens...) because of his permanent experience of what we call here in Germany "Alltagsrassismus" oder "Alltagsdiskriminierung" (roughly: every day racism/disrimination).
If there's some trouble at school -he is under the first suspects without cause.
If something went wrong in the neighbourhood, his mother is called up frequently even if he wasn't even there at the time in question.
If he travels by bus he's treated differently in occasional ticket checks.
If he goes to a shop he often is treated differently compared to his white coloured school friends.
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It's often not direct and open racism, often it's just a slightly different behaviour of other people he notices.
It's not always and everywhere, but too often to be just random.
And when I'm with him I also have noticed those slight differences in behaviour, sometimes it was me that was treated as one would expect and he was just behind me and experienced that he was treated slightly differently -what I could see, too.
Perhaps you may ask why I'm sensitive to this "Alltagsdiskriminierung"?
Because it happened to me, too.
When I was a young adult I had long hair, colourful clothing and was just not the type of guy a mother-in-law would have liked for her daughter in most places.
People treat you differently if you differ from the norm in a way that is not seen positively by the majority.
McBryce, you wrote that you experienced an open, friendly German society. Well, it is, mostly.
I think you experienced it this way because (caution: assumptions) you are male, white, Christian and
not a complete asshole a friendly person yourself.
I remember that I did experience more "normal" behaviour to me after I cut my hair and changed my style of clothing when I was at university.
I have a mostly positive view on the German society, it is more open, more friendly than it was e.g. in the 50's and 60's -according to what my grandfather and my uncle have told me.
Ok, that's it from me, now on to TEA again.