If you can see your neighbors they're too damned close.
mnem
This, 1000x over. Top reason why I want a rural property someday. Right up there is also room for outbuildings for "toys" and room for large antennas.
Great in theory, but the real problem begins when older age starts to bite in your late 70s, tidying up all the stuff, keeping the grass/weeds down let alone running a household - then some bastard like me comes and scrubs your driving licence - then you are really stuffed. Also no/minimal home services for the older person out in the bush.
Very very wise.
My father was a fine example of this. Even though he wasn’t exactly in a rural location towards the end of his life, he lived in a large Hertfordshire town in a 1990s housing development. They stopped his driving license due to “car lifestyle” health, ironically a side effect of living out there, and he lost all contact and mobility instantly. Even amazon was a 2 day turnaround at best and only one supermarket delivered where he was and it was Asda which was not reliable. I had to UPS him toilet paper more than once. He basically went straight downhill then.
Here where I am now I can amble over the road at 2am Monday morning and buy an onion and send a Hermes or UPS parcel. Can get anything delivered same or next day from multiple companies. Am 5 minute walk from two major supermarkets and a strip mall with useful shops in it. 100 yards from a bus stop that will take me in all four directions including the city for free when I am old. Nearest town centre is 5 minutes on a bus away. Im also 5 minutes away from the Thames and associated cycle routes, most of the nice green and leafy bits of London (Kew etc).
I’m wondering do I trade all that away for a bit more space. As you mention, as I get older, am I just hanging myself? I’m desperate to avoid that thus health is being resolved first. Car lifestyle is the biggest killer. I lived in semi rural locations before and they are the first places to go down the toilet when tides turn. I lived in March for a few months and there was a bad onion crop and casual labour was cancelled. The crime rate went through the roof.
Thus I will probably stay put where I am and whinge as is my right as a British person, while completely ignoring the good things
I think I’ll probably settle for a “modest amount of TE”. Until the kids move out
All valid concerns, but the conclusion is unnecessarily pessimistic. (Background: I lived on the edge of the fens, and was dragged up in Epsom)
I live 5 mins walk from a Co-op Local Supermarket, the doctors's surgery, and the bus stop to the city centre 5 miles / 15 mins away.
The nearest major supermarket is 3 miles away and I believe there's a weekly bus service there.
There's a farm shop at one end of the village, and farms at both ends, and I have a rather nice view to green hills 5/10 miles away.
Buzzards fly overhead (mobbed by crows), peregrines nest nearby, there are wild deer all around the village and occasionally in the village too.
Walks are plentiful through golf courses, country estates, forestry commission land, all with mature trees and lots of sweet chestnuts (and a few walnuts).
There's a national cycle network path into the nearby city centre.
Looks like house prices are ~2/3 of where you live, so you could trade up and have plenty of space for TE. (And there are at least 4 ham clubs nearby, some without mouth breathers)
And the people are pleasant and nice.
You
can have it all - well, mostly.