So the car thing is a perfect example of how everyone's experiences -- anecdotal such as they are -- can differ at an individual level.
Toyota: I have a 2001 Toyota Sequoia SUV with 293K miles on it. It's beat to hell now but still runs great. I'd never regret owning another, but when I was in the market for a new one a couple years ago, what I wanted could not be found, and the closest matches were selling for well above MSRP. Which is just a hard no for me. I've never paid sticker for a car and I just can't do it.
Audi: When I couldn't get a new Toyota/Lexus that I wanted for what I considered a reasonable price, I decided if I was going to spend the $$ that I'd splurge on a 2021 Q5 Prestige. I'd been looking at them for years with some envy, and my boss had one. I love it so far! No issues whatsoever, but it's only 2 years old with less than 30K miles, and still under warranty. If it starts to get flaky, I'll unload it, but so far it's been great and the level of customer service from the dealer is light years beyond what I've gotten with any other dealer. And I thought I was happy with my Toyota dealer. But my Audi dealer treats me like royalty, and it's not like I spent 6 figures on the car.
Honda: The one and only Honda I've ever bought was a new 2008 Civic for my youngest daughter. That was the biggest unmitigated turd of a vehicle I've ever owned! Nothing but problems from the time we bought it, and the local Honda dealer was a huge pain in the ass compared to the other dealers I've dealt with. Couldn't wait to unload it.
Kia: After the Honda debacle above, my daughter moved to Kia's and is on her second one now. She loves them! Never had an issue with any of them.
A mechanic friend of mine who did my out-of-warranty work for years before moving away, was a certified BMW and Toyota/Lexus mechanic who told me that in his opinion the #1 most reliable brand was Toyota/Lexus, and #2 was Kia. Despite being one of the only certified BMW mechanics in our town, he strongly advised against them, LOL. He considered the Audi Q series to be reliable, just expensive to maintain (which I can certainly see, which is why I prepaid for my first 40K miles of maintenance at a steep discount). Some other Audi models are known to have issues, although I think you can find models to avoid with nearly any brand.