The SDS1104X-E really doesn't have an eye pattern function and even 200MHz BW is probably not enough for your application. That is usually an extra-cost option on higher-end scopes and not something that can be completely implemented at this level. You can get an eye-like display on the scope with alternate triggering, but I think you miss a lot of information that way since you only see the traces that are immediately after a transition. Also, what you select as the trigger point may not be ideal for lining up rising or falling edges. The window trigger function where you set it to trigger anytime the signal goes outside the middle core is probably better. And of course there is no clock recovery like a scope with a true eye pattern test would have. You can trigger off of a separate clock if you have one, but I don't think that helps in your case. You also need a differential probe to do it properly with ethernet AFAIK.
You can get eye signals even with old analog scopes, but it gets a bit harder at higher BW. Diagnosing bad laser pickups on CD players was a classic example of this.