I'm sorry, but have you any sample FPGA project, which is using memory, soldered on this board? I want try to make own firmware (of course, for add compression), but have no experience with Xilinx Core generators. Using already built DDR2 core will helps to save time by skipping MIG investigation.
FX2LP and other things are not a problem. Most problem is Xilinx Based tool because all my experience is Altera based.