I have 7/16" DIN, SMA and N connector calibration kits. I obviously used the SMA version this time. I have wondered about your calibration kit.
... the cal standard for my old 8754A is using two 100 ohm 0805's for the load.
A calibration standard will always be measured by the same instrument as being perfect regardless of how good or bad it is.
I provided a link to the manufacturer's RF specifications for the resistor which I suggested. Where are similar specifications for what you used?
While you are making it difficult, I am trying to be helpful not confrontational.