TLS et. al asides.
The issue as I have boiled it down now, sans emotion, is one of "Privacy policy by proxy".
A company wants to provide a service to their employees. Say a "How you feeling?" survey. Again, putting the anonymity aspects aside (form my particular case), the company still chooses to use an external 3rd party provider of that service.
This is massively common. External providers are used for training and most of HR systems! External providers are used for email and even infrastructure these days. The company holds only the infrastructure to supply Wifi, LAN and security/access in the office building. I don't even think there is a server room, if it isn't a tiny cupboard somewhere. It's entirely cloud run/based.
Spinning back a good few years and a highlight on how this can be done "better".
The company switched from a privately hosted email server (on the cloud), to Office365. All employee accounts and email got migrated to Office365. On transfer day for my department, we all logged into office365, did the final binding the laptops etc.
Office365 sends you an invite. You click it to begin the process. Now, straight up that is a 3rd party email with a link in it that you didn't ask for. So you would need to have prior knowledge it was coming to not just delete it. Moving on, when you click it, Office365 onboards "you" the individual. It presents the individuals terms and conditions and privacy policy and it is up to ME if I choose to accept it or not. This is critically important. It is ME whom accepts the privacy policy components which related to my data. Not my company.
I did raise the honest question, "What if I refuse the privacy policy?"
My manager pondered this and said, "Well, you wouldn't have email and you probably wouldn't be able to log into your work laptop by next week, so it would make you a bit difficult to place."
Basically, your choice is, accept the privacy policy or ... resign. This is not "privacy policy by proxy", this is "privacy policy extorsion".
But since then I have accounts with about half a dozen HR related 3rd parties, half a dozen IaaS providers, a dozen custoemrs and all their 3rd party training and compliance apps.
Some of the items we are talking about are not items such as "Name of my first pet.", some of them include my personal savings and the savings of my daughter. Full transaction and cash statements. Others might include a 25 question questionaire around my sexual orientation, identification and gender etc. etc. (This one I did refuse and will continue to do so, no matter how much they beg and the DO BEG.)
Most of these services however, it is NOT the employee whom is invited to create the account or register into it. Instead the company uploads the full employee CSV file and creates accounts en-mass for employees. Employees then get emailed with whatever campaign or feature they require you to fill in. It is THESE where the issue lies for me mostly. I haven't even seen the privacy policy for these websites and in the ones I have looked "I personally would not have accepted that policy, because it's full of amber and red flags. I personally would have rejected it. By accepting it on my behave, in my view, the company takes 100% responsibility for that data breach from my personal space."
I am tempted to, for example, without upsetting the apple cart too much, to do a bit of research here.
Lets say I start by submitting a subject access request to all these 3rd parties directly. The PII in question is Full Name, Company, Location, Role. If you put those into google you find me, 1st entry. I can prove I am that person, so I can gain subject access to it. The "Company" can object, and if they do, they will do it in court. Once I have that full dataset which is the "Minimum data footprint" resulting from the companies activities.... anything I find in there that is wrong or discriminatory I have grounds for damages.
Then there is the lack of "Duty of care." Under GDPR when they transfer employee information for business needs all the checks and balances and protections offered by GDPR has to be taken to an extent the company believes the organisation they are transfering the data to, is in fact GDPR compliant. (there are loop holes).
My data is being freely handed out by my company to organisations in the USA, Canada and Asia. When I have inquired in the past nobody, including the companies GDPR compliance officer wanted to touch it with a 10 foot pole. However, my savings accounts, transactions, passport, criminal history, barring checks, and employment history are freely distributed to and by our US clients.
(Appologies as I mix "my company/employer" with the company I actually work for and it's probably not clear. my employer is UK based, my employment contract is UK based, my rights are UK based. Most of the companies I work for are "international".
A few other things off the top of my head...
Having to provide a customer with your personal email address, and/or, mobile phone number. In some cases they absolutely insist it's personal.
In some cases these are used to send umpteen factor authentication fragments for first login. In others they are just nosey and want direct access to the individual thus to avoid any contractual work hours hurdles.
Having to install mobile applications on my personal phone. In most of these cases you are required to disable the Android security protections, add a third party app source, then disable more security to allow installation of the APK file from their app repo. Once installed it asks for everything from Access to Contacts, Access to make calls, Access to camera and microphone. Now it does include an internal Zoom client, which might explain those, but you have to accept ALL of them to be able to use the app, just to get the MFA token generator.
Having customers ask for my personal email and phone number on emails with over 100 people in it. Having ignored it three times, they posted a sterner email containing a list of all the idiots they had scammed so far. Their full name, personal email address, personal mobile number, city location and work hours.
"THIS! THIS! Is why you can't have my personal details you *****ing morons..."
"Save this draft?"... NO.
In fairness the above and the fact it was a screenshot of a wiki page did get noticed and I did not report it. About 3 weeks later the entire Wiki system now has a mandatory "Accept[]" box on EVERY log in with as assertation that you understand that PII and employee nor customer contact information should be stored there.