Comparison was to demonstrate exactly that - "original terminator" have (longer) parasitic transmission line inside, yet you say that I shall compensate for it and basically void whole idea of demonstration
you cannot make conclusions from your measurements, because your NanoVNA was calibrated with incompatible loads. It means that your NanoVNA calibration is invalid and you cannot believe to it's measurements.
Your cal-lit L load can be really bad, but you're needs to use proper calibration in order to check that. Proper calibration means that all your cal-kit loads - L, O and S should be exactly the same physical length. O load should have 50 fF. If you you can satisfy these conditions for calibration, then you can believe measurements results.
I can help you to determine if your load is really bad and what happens exactly.
In order to do that, please provide me with S1P files taken in the following way:
1) open CAL menu and press RESET
2) open CLIBRATE menu and perform calibration with NanoVNA cal-kit (with using NanoVNA L load). Press OPEN/SHORT/LOAD just once. If you press it twice, go to step 1 (reset cal and repeat).
3) Check if calibration success (check that O, S, L loads shows proper point on Smith chart)
4) Measure S1P file for NanoVNA cal-kit L load
5) Measure S1P file for Minicircuits terminator
6) Provide me with these two S1P files
Provide me with these two S1P files and I will check what is going on with your loads.