As stated earlier the amount of lead that becomes vapour at soldering temperatures is negligible. In fact, it is less than 10^-11 atm (graph attached).
There is an argument that lead-free solder is worse in terms of flux fumes as the higher temperature required will cause more components of the flux to evaporate. This, of course, needs to be evaluated on a flux by flux basis, it is however a sensible argument.
Lead is
not absorbed through skin - lead from solder can only enter the body by swallowing (
http://www.hse.gov.uk/pubns/indg305.pdf).
Since you are in the business of making your activity healthier, you should also evaluate the best solder to use. In general, the higher temp for lead-free solder will oxidise your tip faster. Also, it makes duller joints and is more expensive. Leaded solder does better in all domains. However, it is very aggressive to copper, so if the plating on your tip goes, expect to solder to eat through it very quickly. Arguably, the tip had been damaged beforehand.
And just for laughs, in 1999 the worldwide consumption of lead in various products was 0.49%. 80% for batteries, 4.7% for ammunitions, 4.6% for paints and so on. This is from an old reference(Advancing
Microelectronics, September/October 1999 p. 29), but it is before RoHs and gives you an idea of the proportions.
Alex