AOI probably varies by what machine is doing it, and they can probably watch for those sorts of things now. But hey, a low budget assembler might not have current tools, either, so... you'd have to ask them. And yeah, you can add exceptions, but that's more programming or machine time.
There's probably a mechanical reason not to do it, like uneven solder fillets, causing a minuscule amount of strain, or... something. But that's the whole point of gull wing leads, so that's kind of a bad excuse.
Like I said, best practice is to avoid adding metal in the gap between pads. Instead of a straight trace between, use a "C" shape that exits each pad lengthwise. If they're going to an inner (or opposite) layer, you could use individual vias, or put the via in the "C" shape. (If the via is very near the pads, it should probably be tented on the same side as the footprint, so solder paste doesn't wander into it and leave the joint dry.)
Tim