Odds are, because it has three pin power in with PE, the laptop PSU has the 0V (-) side of its DC out grounded. You can check that by checking for continuity, PE to 0V with the PSU totally disconnected.
If the tip's floating you can ground it, so with the iron cold and power off, check resistance between the tip and the 0V side of its DC in jack. If it reads open or very high resistance, its OK to ground the tip (via the barrel). If it shows as direct continuity, its already supposedly grounded so something else is going on e.g. your PSU doesn't have a grounded output so you'll need a seperate PE to 0V ground connection. As with all Chinese clone stuff, you'll probably have to do some resistance measurements with a DMM or even a teardown to figure out if the handpiece already has a ground wire fitted separate from the heater connections, so you can simply mod the station.
Once you've I.D'ed the tip ground wire at the connector, try a 1K resistor between there and 0V. Nearly all the stray voltage on the tip should go away. If so you can link the tip ground wire directly to 0V. If it doesn't, further investigation is required + possibly rewiring the handset.
N.B. After successfully grounding the tip, be *VERY* careful when working on circuits with charged capacitors or batteries. If you touch the grounded tip to a circuit node that's got a significant voltage on it, shorting it out, if the discharge current is high enough, you'll damage the bit and possibly also damage the controller in the station. If you've got no choice but to solder a battery terminal with the battery present, disconnect *ALL* other lead to the board or device to ensure there is no other ground connection to complete the circuit, and work on an ESD mat, *NOT* a grounded metal surface.