Well now I feel stupid, the Tseng card works now, let me explain.
I decided I would search through the bios for anything that could help me. I found settings for ROM shadowing and some various other video related things, no differences. But I found a setting called "Hidden Refresh" under advanced chipset settings, as it turns out disabling whatever that is solves all my woes. If anybody can explain what hidden means I am all ears, but for now I am just going to take what I can get.
Should I have looked through the bios before? probably.