Forgive me for asking the obvious, but are you using actual oven bulbs? Do they get very greasy perhaps?
Yes, I am buying the appliance 40 W clear bulbs meant for refrigerator/oven (at least when I went to buy them), there is a picture clearly on the package. No grease issues, the oven is very clean.... spotless. Sylvania brand, although there are Philips, GE, etc. Most are rated at least 1000-2000 hours. Unless we got some cheap-o bulbs from the dollar store (I believe my wife may have bought the last batch in a 4-pack) that could have been only good for "cold" applications (ceiling fan, refrigerator). She unpackaged them and put them in with our other bulbs so I didn't confirm whether they were made for refrigerator/oven? I will make sure she shows me the packaging first!
One thing that I did notice occasionally, but have not yet experimentally tested, is that one of the 2 legs holding up that big long heating element on the bottom of the oven sometimes bends and the heating element is able to tilt a bit on one side and touch the bottom of the oven enclosure. I don't know if that has anything to do with it, I highly doubt that would make any difference to the heat distribution or affect the bulb which is far away at the top in the corner.
check the socket if its damaged / deformed / greasy ... bad contacts make current consumption higher
Yes thank you, I will check the socket as well and see if there is anything wrong with it.
I have a feeling (and hope) that it is just a simple situation of my significant other getting those cheap dollar store bulbs that were probably for fan/fridge cold applications and not oven, which she mixed into my batch of refrigerator/oven bulbs, resulting in the life-span irregularity. Time to take control of the bulb stock and keep a close eye on things, and I'll get back to you with the results!