First, don't search "Dell inspiron xxx port", instead disassemble it and check yourself how it looks. There're lots of mistales in these listings.
Anyways, Dell port are pretty good, also most laptops in general, they have solid anchoring points (not sure what english term to use).
Dell's center pin is not por power, but for charger detection/feedback, the power goes through the inner and outer rings (like Lenovo's square connector and some HPs).
I changed a lot of laptop charging connectors, 99% of the problems were caused by the the use of universal chargers which use plug adapters, or bulky repairs using a ton of isolation tape, making the final plug very long and causing of torque over the connector.
Or just hard pulling, ex. someone walking hitting the cable.
Any light pull and bang! Broken connector or board.
Don't use universal chargers! Buy a compatible one which has a short, dedicated connector, without any adapters.