My first experience charging an EV at a local hotel ended up with me leaving because the spot was taken by either a clueless or dickhead ICE owner
Is Australia like the UK, where many charging stations are in places that look fine during the day, but you wouldn't want to spend time at in the middle of the night, when there are no people, lights or any kind of security around?
Security?
What kind of city do you live in?
Whatever city you live in dark unoccupied corners are not the safest places at night. Also, if you are talking about chargers for long distance travel, you may be looking at a spot far from the madding crowd. I may not worry too much about some of these places, but most women would, with good reason.
Are you referring the Whites House? Or the Capital Building. Both can be dark places, unsafe for women.
What on Earth are you talking about? Have you no idea of the differences in how men and women perceive threats. Try asking some of the men and women you know how they would react when staying alone in a hotel, and there is a knock on the door at 3AM. You'll get very different responses.
Remember that alone in that dark charging point area you can't even drive off quickly if someone dodgy looking appears. You need to get out of your car and disconnect the charging cable.
I remember a few years ago, when we were having discussions as part of one of the charging standards processes, someone raised the idea of a connector that could be ejected from the driver's seat. This was specifically to allow for a quick escape in the event of trouble around a charging station. I wonder what happened to that idea?