I've used the Si4735 a few years ago, and it had pretty good performance (with RDS as well). It has I2S outputs so if you are dealing with digital audio in your system, that's a bonus. The Si4703 is a bit simpler to integrate, but not as good IME (and I think FM only). Both will require programming through SPI, but that's rather straightforward. There are variants in the same product line so you can pick whichever fits your needs best. If you're looking for an IC, that would be a good option. If you're looking for a ready-made tuner, there are probably dozens out there but beware most of them are utter crap.