Now, is the idea of modifying cars reasonable? Some in this thread say otherwise, contrary to the forum's motto: "Don't turn it on, take it apart!"
That doesn't mean that safety and laws go out of the window. In the US pretty much anything goes when it comes to cars, in Europe if you attempted this sort of stunt, you will not pass the mandatory technical inspection and your insurance would be void, with you being instantly on the hook for any damage or problem that happens. Regardless of any forum mottoes. That you are even bringing this sort of thing as an argument shows a rather astounding lack of comprehension.
I am not sure whether you realize how high the medical bills could be if you hit someone (regardless whether because of your hack or any other reason) - and don't have a valid insurance. Probably your kids would be still paying those debts, esp. in the US, not to mention your possible prison time for driving without insurance.
NTSB and the EU do not seem religiously opposed to retro-fitting cars with limiting devices as long as they are implemented safely.
Which doesn't mean that whatever homebrew gadgets are allowed, esp. stuff that goes into safety critical systems (I am sure you have heard about the runaway accelerator problems on some Toyotas before, right?)
E.g. in Europe any mods you put on your car have to be either generally approved or you must get your own checks and approval of them from the authorities (i.e. TüV in Germany) - and have that noted in your registration papers! Otherwise your car is illegal to drive, full stop. E.g. here in Germany even using different wheel rims than the original ones the car came with can result in a major fine from the police and your car being towed/declared illegal to drive if you didn't do the above.
The speed limiting devices you refer to are completely irrelevant to the debate - these have to be factory-fitted (plus it is a completely different, much more complex system - tied to satnav maps + reading of traffic signs). Homebrewers need not apply - as an individual you have zero chance to satisfy the regulatory requirements to make your own mod legal.
Most of them are weirdos who like to spend excessive effort keeping their foot barely pressed on the pedal so as to accelerate as slowly as possible. I suggest you test drive one to understand what I'm talking about.
Or, try a Tesla in and out of Chill Mode. You may surprise yourself and find that a lower torque cap is actually nicer to drive.
I think that simply due to statistics the probability is much higher that the Bolt owners are all fine - except for one weirdo who is hell bent on trying to kill himself by messing with something they don't understand instead of learning to drive the car they have bought.
And if you like the Tesla - why did you buy a Bolt? Buying a Bolt and complaining it doesn't drive like a Tesla (and trying to dangerously mess with it to boot) is a bit daft, IMO.