That mosfet is obsolete, but I can buy it from Digikey, where I usually buy parts, for $8.25 plus shipping. Mouser is about the same price. I can buy 5 of them from AliExpress for that price, but ... we all know there are risks about fakes, etc. LCSC has them for $4.75, but I've never dealt with them.
LCSC is good -- I think they are the under the same company as JLCPCB and easyEDA; well that information holds more weight if you have used those before. And they have been my first stop for parts since I found them while doing hobby electronics in 2019. The only issue I have with LCSC is that shipping is a bit expensive, usually starts at about $6, depending on your cart, for the cheapest option (7+ business days?) and they tell you they will add a $3 fee if your merchandise total isn't above $15. So usually my workflow has been that I get at least 2 or more projects going, determine all the components I need, make my components order, and then sketch up my PCBs.
I'd love some guidance or suggestions from those who have been down this road. [...] Am I crazy to consider buying from AliExpress?
In my experience, AliExpress is really good for WYSIWYG (What-You-See-is-What-You-Get) parts without too complicated specs, e.g. resistors, capacitors, connectors and headers, ICs designed by Asian companies and modules based on those, and legacy ICs that there are generics for (e.g. CD4049). For things like power inductors where the saturation current matters, I'd typically go for LCSC because they provide a datasheet. Like the others have been saying, AliExpress is pretty risky for Western manufacturer ICs; the idea "if it is too good to be true, it probably is" holds true most of the time. The only time I tried AliExpress for ICs was out of desperation; it was back in the 2020s when there was a ST32 supply crunch. I guess I was lucky they turned out fine but it was because the listing price was already higher than that of market prices before ST announced production suspensions and probably because the seller wasn't aware of the incoming supply crunch / some other reason they hadn't adjusted the price to reflect latest market prices.
As for your IRF640, chances are your AliExpress seller is selling one that they purchased in bulk from LCSC (
https://www.lcsc.com/search?q=IRF460) or one of the manufacturers LCSC lists. I have seen AliExpress sellers straight up rip LCSC images for their AliExpress item listing. If the seller isn't claiming what the manufacturer is, it is probably from LCSC. If the seller is claiming who the manufacturer is, say TI or Infineon, I'd say "go for it" only if the seller has 95%+ reputation and been open for at least 2 years, and/or there are actual ratings with a decent quantity sold for the listing.
And no, you aren't crazy for considering buying from AliExpress. I, too, know the temptation of a good deal and how I do a sanity check whether or not the it is "too good to be true" is through broader awareness how ridiculous the margins are for retailers and Amazon FBA. Overall my experience on AliExpress has been decent for more than just electronics: mechanical hardware (beats the hell out of McMaster except for shipping time and unknown mechanical stress specs, but if you need a "m3 knurled hand screw" just for an enclosure, you probably don't need to know whether or not its tensile strength is >60k psi) and replacement car parts (e.g. vanity mirror light / nice aftermarket parts / car detailing chemicals).