You mean, somebody connects power to the output and load to the input and a parasitic diode in the regulator blows it up?
Bypass the regulator with a reverse Schottky diode, but user's load will then see 11.7V instead of 8V.
Add a diode in series with the input and screw efficiency.
Figure out some "ideal diode" protection circuit which will work even in absence of 12V power.
Input and output connectors shouldn't be same sex even if they are same size.