Sorry to hear about your friend, that's really rough.
Circuit breakers are definitely not intended for daily on/off use.
If you have multiple circuits, ideally, you'd wire the whole lab on its own subpanel separate from the main panel. Small panels designed for just such a purpose are not terribly expensive, and can be fed from a suitably rated breaker installed in the main panel. The subpanel can be fitted with whatever combinatrion of conventional/GFCI/AFCI breakers suit your purposes/code requirements. In between you could install a suitably rated disconnect switch.
If you have only one circuit, you could skip the subpanel and just install a small disconnect switch in line. You can get those
fairly inexpensively, although I don't know if there may be code implications for installing such equipment on a residential wall. At the very least a local inspector is likely to be surprised to see such a thing.
If you want to add some automation to the on/off control, you could use a suitably rated contactor in addition to or in place of the disconnect.
All that said, you've only addressed a single room in the house. A lab disconnect may be useful in case you're working on something a bit dodgy, but in normal operation I would expect a lab to be no more likely than any other room in the house to be the source of an electrical fire, if not less. If you're the type of person who has a lab and uses it regularly, I'd suspect that you're likely the sort who will notice when the equipment seems to be misbehaving, or when a cable needs replacing, and address those issues promptly. Versus how many other appliances in your house that get used intermittently, or that are used constantly but only rarely noticed. Coffee makers, heat/AC systems, fans, lamps, even your light switches and receptacles can cause electrical fires. So if you're really concerned with the risk of fire, a better first step is to check that all of your appliances and electrical infrastructure is in good shape. Replace conventional breakers with AFCIs for living spaces (required for new construction in most places). Make sure your dryer vent is clear! Then worry about the lab.