Don't bother cutting the boards, you'd kill the dremel or the drills .. motherboards have lots of layers (6-10 layers) with copper between them... both copper and fiberglass are hard on drill bits and dremels... and fiber glass is also hard on your lungs (you'd have to use some protection on your mouth to not breath that in - you can find in hardware stores dust masks relatively cheap which helps A BIT but aren't guaranteed to trap all the fiber glass particles.
Not all solder pots are dangerous, just those chinese ones. In theory you could buy one, remove the cup that holds the liquid solder and just go to your stove and heat up the cup and the solder in the pot on your stove. No risks then.
The hard to get part in those is the cup, which has to be made from a metal that doesn't do bad things to the solder or doesn't interact with the solder... if not metal, it's a ceramic material.
If you want really dangerous, see this:
http://hackaday.com/2012/04/25/homebrew-solder-pot-is-too-dangerous-even-for-us/The nut got a halogen lightbulb and covered it with solder, the heat from the lamp melted the solder around - if the bulb explodes all that solder splashes around