Mica is first thing that comes to mind. Good thermal conductivity, electrical insulator, and it can be made in very thin and flat sheets due to crystalline structure. Can be purchased in relatively large and thin sheets. At 50C, you can use the regular heatsink goop to couple the mica to the alum plate.
Not sure how to stick the wires to other side of the mica, though. A lot of commercial products use ceramics to hold the wires in place. Maybe there is some kind of clay you can buy which will fire at lower temps, say in a regular oven. I'm thinking you fire the whole mess in the oven, alum plate, mica, wire/clay. Then goop the mica side to the aluminum plate.