I need to add an inline N/C switch (or something) that opens itself after a short time 0.75 to 1.0s to simulate the release of the doorbell button after a normal human button push delay. Can you give me a tip like "build/buy a self resetting 20VAC N/C thingamajig" to point me in the right direction?
If you are ok with a PCB module, there are shiploads of what look like cloned timer relay variants from Aliexpress.
Some use Nuvoton N76E003 MCUs so you could completely reconfigure if you wanted to, but the default of trigger -> time relay pulse sounds like what you wanted anyway.
LED models
https://www.aliexpress.com/item/1005006151283961.htmland more recent are LCD models
https://www.aliexpress.com/i/1005004189362865.htmlor, you could experiment with a simple series cap / resistors that give a short decaying pulse on the leading edge.
If it is a NO relay drive, a parallel drain resistor across the Cap discharges it.
Needs to be large enough to not trigger the bell by itself, but low enough to give a reasonable retrigger time, tho your fixed 60s may limit that anyway.