It is not that unusual for caps to "sing". I am not sure, but it could be due to magnetostriction. (Just got a trade journal at work today with an article on cap noise in power supplies, focused mainly on ceramics which have piezo characteristics). Usually the solution is to parallel a number of caps to attain lower esr and handle higher ripple currents. Also your cap seems to be a bit light on its ripple current capability. With the current you are drawing, this can lead to short like of the cap. At those power levels, I would recommend paralleling 3 or 4 of those caps.
paul