It turns out there are a number of Honda dealers who have discount online parts businesses. The Honda forums report that these dealers do sell genuine Honda parts, and at a significant discount. So I picked one they recommended, and have ordered the sensors for about $35 each including shipping. The cost at my local dealer would have been $52. But the most expensive would have been at the tire shop, which would charge me $60 each for Dill sensors. Oddly, the tire shop says there will be no charge to install my sensors as part of the tire change.
The cost at Amazon for what they claim to be genuine Honda sensors is $39. It's just not clear from the reviews that they are Honda parts, or who exactly the seller is.
Of course there's no guarantee that the OEM sensors will last as long as the original sensors. But you just have to make the best decision you can, and hope for the best.