I’ve bought various gauges of stranded silicone wire from digi-key. They have a huge selection (though it dwindles below 24ga), and it’s actually no more expensive than eBay. (eBay’s only advantage in silicone wires, IMHO, is that they carry a wider selection of colors.)
Bear in mind that, as best I can tell, silicone insulated wires fall into in 3 general categories: “normal”, high-voltage, and test lead wire.
Test lead wire has the finest strands, making it much more flexible (and more expensive) than the others, and generally thick insulation to make it more durable, since it’ll be used naked, so to speak. (For reference, on 18ga, outer diameter will be 3-3.5mm.) Many manufacturers now make the insulation dual-layered (white inner layer and colored outer layer) on all but the smallest gauges, to make wire damage easier to spot. In my last Digi-Key order, I got some thicker (18ga I think) wire from Pomona and Mueller, and some thinner (24ga I think) from Cal-Test. It’s all nice stuff. (Oddly, despite it officially being the same stuff, the Pomona wire still isn’t quite as flexible as the wire on my Fluke TL175 probes. Differences in batches I suppose...)
High-voltage wire is, well, made for high voltage applications. I have no experience with this, but I assume it’s got really thick insulation or something.
The “normal” silicone wire is just that: ordinary stranded wire with silicone insulation. It’s more flexible than PVC or Teflon insulated wire, but not as flexible as test lead wire. But the insulation is thinner, so not as bulky, but not suited for uses with a lot of mechanical abrasion. So perfect for bodge wires and the like. (For reference, on 18ga, typical outer diameter around 2mm.)
The Adafruit 30ga silicone wire falls into that category, and it’s neat stuff. It’s very, very thin: The outer diameter is extra-thin 0.8mm (similar to a mechanical pencil lead, for reference), so I’d hardly call it bulky, unless compared to teflon or lacquer insulation. Unlike how I expected wire that thin to act, it does not behave like limp thread: it has some memory. If you shape it, it will retain the shape to an extent. For some appications this is helpful, for others annoying. Digi-Key carries it, by the way.
(I haven’t tried the 26ga.)
Digi-Key also carries a full range of silicone wires down to 30ga from a brand called Daburn, but it’s special-order by the reel only. But it’d do better for your application as far as traceabiity. (Their 30ga is 1.1mm outer diameter.)
What I would love for the big distributors like Digi-Key to carry is specialty earphone cable. It’s thin and super-flexible. (And, granted, a pain in the ass to solder. But I digress.)