Quite a time ago, I've seen a circuit like this in a three-phase meter (L1,L2,L3,N connected).
It uses a simple SMPS to step down and isolate the 12V suppy from an intermediate (ballpark 150V) DC voltate, derived from the line voltages by capacitive droppers having rather high series resistors. For the rather low power requirement that you have, this should also work.
Stress voltage across the diodes is reduced to said intermediate voltage, higher frequency components are dealt by the rather high impedance resistors in series with the capacitors. I don't remember the actual component values. Capacitors have to be rated for the line voltage, resistors are requires to be robust (pulse load, max. voltage rating) and silent failing to open circuit. No fuses required, the resistors are expected to cost way less than appropriate fuses.