I want to apologize to everyone here and explain why I've edited my above post. What I did and what I said were harsh but I believe enough of the right people have read it to get my point across. This is why being able to edit things are a good idea and I think that Dave's stance on it are valid and justified. What you say on the net never really goes away, there's a copy somewhere always. No one should have to live with a falsehood or an attack forever and I'll be the first to admit that I've been guilty of both in the past.
To xrunner, I apologize for doing what I did but I wanted to show you that, even with very little to go on, your life can be exposed in ways you never imagined. I thought for quite some time before I decided to take this action and then again for longer for self censoring. You seem to be intelligent enough to understand the consequences and repercussions of the internet and information. Let us now be friends here or barring that, civil.