Ok, So, I installed another chip and also bricked it LOL
But, this time, I got it to work back.. I used another atmega328p, set the fuse to make it wirk full power (and checked the divide by 8 and the clock output on portB0..
Used that pin to feed the signal to the XTAL1 pin (input) and reflash the bricked controller.. and it worked.. so, i'm going to keep the first one and try to redo the same.
Thanks to all for the help.. worked like a charm.