recommended connectors for pin in paste / through hole reflow or press fits?

[loki42]

I'm contemplating reflow soldering some PTH parts. I'd also be open to press fits. Does anyone know of good / cheap / PiP compatible IDC, 3.5 mm TRS jack, 1/4" jack connectors and 2.1 mm barrel jack power connectors?  What should I look for if trying to see if they'll survive reflow? I tried some Neutrik connectors using SAC305 GC 10 in our previous oven and melted them. Would it be worth switching to low temp paste (Bi or something else, lead free only).

I've got gear for press fits if that's a better option / possible.