OK, so I've uncrossed my eyes and followed the diagram around a bit, so a few questions. I also looked at your notes and they look right as far as I can tell at a quick glance.
What is the part called out as '181' ?
What are the exact symptoms observed with the car? Are you actually seeing the +12V on pin 85 of relay 75e when cranking? If you jump pins 30 and 87 does the ABS system then function normally?
181 is the ABS warning light on the dash. It lights up in case of failure somewhere in the ABS system.
The +12V on pin 85 is present only when the key is turned to the "run" position. This is not during cranking, but when all the dash lights and radio come on. Then when you turn the key to crank the engine (start position), the voltage is NOT present. When the engine starts and you release the key, it goes back to +12V.
I haven't tried jumping 30 to 87, but it's crossed my mind. I could be convinced to try it.
Here are the symptoms:
When I fire up the car and start driving, everything seems normal. No warning lights, and braking is normal. After several applications of the brake pedal, the hydraulic pressure drops below the minimum level. At that point the "brake failure warning light" on the dash lights up. Note this is not the ABS warning light, but the regular brake system warning light. After about a dozen more brake applications, hydraulic pressure is so low that it suddenly becomes extremely difficult to stop the car. Dangerously difficult. Undriveable.
Here's the weird thing. If I stop the car on the side of the road and turn it off, as soon as I turn the key off, the pump turns on and pressurizes the system again. Obviously this is improper operation. The pump should not be running with the car off. It is supposed to run periodically while driving in order to maintain pressure in the system. So it runs when the car is off, and doesn't run when the car is on. This to me can mean only an electrical control issue. Mechanically the pump and the low pressure switch are doing their jobs.
Now, it is entirely possible that one of the downstream relays is also malfunctioning, but before I go there I need to fix the problem with this relay first I think. All of the trouble started about a month ago, and my investigation started by pulling this control system relay to test it.