It seems your speeds are pretty respectable Bruce and so they'd wanna be for the price although giving the coverage Starlink offers would be in no way cheap.
It's not cheap, but it's not outrageous compared to other fast internet options in NZ -- or to *any* kind of internet for rural users.
Sure, if I lived in a city I could get fibre comparable to Starlink (but lower ping) for $85 per month. But I'm not in a city.
In December and January before I found this place, I was staying with relatives on the outskirts of Whangarei, 7 km by road from the Kamo traffic lights. In early 2018 I'd upgraded them from DSL that on their shitty phone line was giving under 1 Mbps to Spark 4G that gave around 30 down and 10 up. They were most pleased. I don't remember the price, but the first time their daughter and grandkids came to stay they upgraded from 120 GB to 300 GB and were paying $160/month. Unfortunately 300 GB wasn't going to be enough with me there, so I investigated the options. It turned out that Spark now has a plan they could change to that is $70 a month for UNLIMITED. It's still the same slow(ish) speed but, yes, cheaper.
Neither Spark nor Vodafone would do 4G home internet at my location. It seems uber.nz is an option. They have an unlimited plan for $120, but the speeds are only apparently never more than 50 Mbps and could be quite a bit lower depending on obstacles, other nearby users etc.
None of this compares to the 450 rubles (US$6) a month I paid for unlimited 100/100 internet in Moscow in 2015-2018.
NZ rural connectivity is mostly shite away from the cities so their are many possibilities to swipe the bread and butter from under the big boys noses so a few years back we went and cut our copper and went with a 5GHz P-P link from a small mom&pop ISP for data and phone over the same link.
Now with a good personal relationship with them we also beam our link to more of their customers as our residence is on relatively high ground and as reward we now get their services for free.
Using off the shelf simply configurable HW available today is were it's at for a value packed solution if the ISP has access to decent fiber near an elevated site and then bouncing it even 100km is quite straightforward.
Yeah, it's pretty easy to do this stuff. Back in 2005 some friends and I were thinking about doing a community WIFI network around Wellington. Some of us lived in houses with good views, and we knew some other people. We went as far as driving up for example Wright's Hill in Karori and Newlands with small dishes hooked to WRT54's powered by inverters and seeing how easy it was to get a connection (it was easy). That never came together as the community thing, but maybe a year later I got a couple of the then new Meraki units and set up a link between my house (with cable) and a friend a couple of km away across a valley who could only get original DSL. A couple of years later we upgraded to Ubiquiti Nanostation units and had a reliably 70 Mbps between our houses. I supplied him with internet for about ten years until I went to Moscow and he moved elsewhere too.
So Bruce, this ^ maybe an option to reduce your Starlink costs if you can spare some BW to close by locals.
It was fine for me to share my cable connection with my friend because while it was reasonably priced, I did have to pay for every GB (and I charged my friend for what he used). The more internet we used, the happier the cable company was.
It's different with "unlimited" service such as Starlink. Such providers don't tend to take kindly to sharing connections.
I was cruising around on my motorcycle a few days ago and saw a Starlink dish on a "neighbour"s roof, 2100 meters from me. I should go and introduce myself and see how long they've had it. They're two ridges over. I think there's juuust LoS between our road gates over the ridge between, but the houses are both down the hill a little on the "wrong" side.