There is a difference in the technology: the LT5400 is NiCr on silicon. AFAIK the TDP1603 is NiCr on ceramics and in a larger size case. The case effects on how much mechanical stress from the PCB transfers to the actual resistor.
The specs for those higher end resistor arrays are tricky, as some just represent the test-limits and not the actual performance. Things like the long term drift are very hard to test - at least not fast, so they can include them in the data-sheet when the part comes out.
The TC specs are also hard to compare, as they are for different temperature ranges. The actual relevant range is likely much smaller again.
For a single unit build one may not care that much about the spec limits, more about the typical performace. One would do some tests anyway and find out if one gets a poor sample.
The big plus for the TDP1603 is that it has 8 resistors and not just 4. This allow to get a nomianl 7 to 10 ratio and thus no extra -5% step. With more resistors one also gets additional statistic averaging which can help quite a bit with the TCR matching.
Despite the not that great spec limits ( < 5 ppm/K rel. TC for -55 to +125 C), I would consider the TDP1603 a reasonable choice. I would expect the TC matching more in the < 1 ppm/K range for the near room temperature range and thus good enough for the ADR1399.