What defines an actual real invention is how hundreds of such simple ideas are combined to implement something which works and is useful as a whole. And as such, many real inventions therefore belong to teams of people; many who remain unnamed but possibly contributed more than those whose names are written in books of history.
Well OK - that's
your definition of an invention, but it isn't the generally accepted one:
U.S. Patent Law: a new, useful process, machine, improvement, etc., that did not exist previously and that is recognized as the product of some unique intuition or genius, as distinguished from ordinary mechanical skill or craftsmanship.
It says nothing about how many people are involved.
But in the end - I have invented frequency hopping, too. It is one of those fairly simple ideas, which just come to you when you have a problem to solve, and you can design them on a napkin.
That's the problem with many inventions: once invented they seem obvious and trigger the usual chorus of "Well,
I could have invented that!" I think there are two things at play here. Firstly, as technology advances some inventions seem almost inevitable, and if one person didn't come up with it another would have done the next day. Secondly, it is often the case that we cannot send our mind back in time and appreciate what the intellectual landscape was like at the time. In 21st century eyes, spread spectrum seems so obvious it's like we were born knowing about it, but 85 years ago it was a very different world.
You claim to have invented spread spectrum yourself, presumably before learning about it. I don't believe you: anyone vaguely interested in modern technology will have heard or read about it - perhaps only at the most superficial level - by the time they are young adults. We are surrounded by this type of technology and an inquisitive mind can discover this stuff so easily these days. It's important to remember that Lamarr's intellectual breakthrough
happened in the complete absence of modern day context. And the fact that her invention remained unused for 20 years does suggest that it was before its time, and that it wasn't obvious. When there is no obvious application, an obvious solution seems unlikely.
Anyway, I remain happy to give Lamarr full credit for it. I think observing a pianola and suddenly realising that the notes can represent different carrier frequencies, and by fitting out the receiver with the same piano roll and syncing their start, the two can send information that is secure and very hard to jam... well, I think it was a tremendous insight in the context of that time.