Yes, mechanical solution will work, if the tip has enough capacitance - if it is coupled to something big in size or to mains ground. It is probably the most reliable way (no false touch), except, of course, software solutions, which were already mentioned.
Yet, because this is an electronics forum, I will mention that you might be able to simulate touch electronically. In fact I tried this once for fun and it worked. You stick a conductive disc shape "electrode" on a screen, size of finger tip and switch it to ground by using small very low capacitance mosfet. It might need a little play, like for example, applying thin isolation layer on the bottom of electrode - bare metal might be not good. Electronic solution is more risky and migh generate false touch in some cases because of electrical noises.