I agree that the user interface is so non-standard that unless I use it daily, I have to relearn its quirks which takes time. Example: I wanted to do a quick sim of a simple circuit as a proof-of-concept. I first used the online version of Circuitlab which I've never used before. In about 10 minutes I had an answer. The interface is so intuitive that I was able to draw and simulate without referring to documentation. I think the software also has "smarts" that helps get to an answer.
I really liked the pallet of "reference parts" on the left, which seem to be standardized parts that are typical. One part I needed is a bridge rectifier module. I have not yet found such a part in LTspice as installed. It was easy to place parts, connect them, and run a basic transient simulation.
Because Circuitlab requires a subscription to save your circuits, I decided to do the same thing with LTSpice, which I used extensively years ago. Immediately I hit frustration as I could not remember the quirky GUI. I wanted to select a part to rotate it, but there is no generic select tool. You need to use the "move" hand-shaped cursor, and then press ctrl-R. I doubt I would have discovered that by trial and error, I had to google. The lack of a general select tool constantly stumps me. You have to use a "scissors" tool to delete a part, etc. I am also flummoxed by the lack of scroll bars on the schematic window. You can zoom in and out, but your schematic may drift out of view. Until I know better, I end up zooming out and trying to move the entire schematic into the center of the window, then zooming back in.
Selecting parts can be daunting since rarely used parts and popular parts are lumped into long lists. Very often we just want to grab a typical reference part with wide specs to check proof-of-concept of a circuit. There may be a way to set that up in LTspice, but it doesn't jump out at you. Circuitlab just has a nice common list of parts visible from the get-go.
I have a lot of confidence that LTspice simulations are well designed, fast, and accurate, though you may have to research how to tweak parameters for best performance. So I'm mainly complaining about the GUI. I'm aware that the guy who has been maintaining LTspice has left and now is maintainint QSpice, which is his complete rewrite of LTspice and supposedly has much better code. On first look, the GUI isn't any more friendly. However, perhaps now we can put in requests for improvement to the LTSpice GUI and get more response. An alternate GUI option like Circuitlab's would be my suggestion. Keep the original, but have an option to select the alternate.