The problem is to get enough financial means to actually buy a property. You are lucky in that respect by having the chance AND insight to buy your own space. Many people are caught up in being so poor that they are not able to spend the money to make their life cheaper. It is a vicious circle. Or better put, like running in a hamster wheel. Moving like grazy but not going anywhere.
Sure, but in both cases here they both said they considered buying a place.
For Xyla it seemed to be a matter of the existing house not being within her price range. So presumably she has the capacity to borrow at least reasonably close to the funds.
So you have to assume if she just moved somewhere cheaper she could buy a suitable place.
I did suggest on her video that she crowd source finding a new place to buy. Publish your requirements and let the community search for you. Most will be losers, but you might find one real gem of a suggestion.
Lousi Rossmann did this, and I found a place for him which he did a video tour of it. Wasn't the right one, but he did the hard yards.
For Fran's case one of the problems is not only being self employed and getting a loan, but also that the banks would not consider her Patreon as income. So according to the bank she had no income.
So if that's the case for Fran, I'm not sure how Xyla is able to do it. Maybe she has a partner with income as well, and maybe the state makes a difference too. Fran is also much older and hasn't had a regular job for a very long time, so that likely factored into the equation.
I'm not convinced that Fran exhausted every avenue for buying a place, but we've been through that before. And she has other reason for staying where she is.
Fran is unfortunately now stuck with a barely survivable Patreon income, so is very much stuck on the hampster wheel, unless drastic changes are made.
Xyla is still young, has or will have a partner, and is presumably free to move if she choses, so she's definitely not on the hampster wheel. But IMO she needs to start thinking long term.
In my case, my "insight" was more basic math (but also partly philosophy and long term thinking). At the time it was either pay $195,000 to buy an office, or rent one at $15k/year. The interest rate at the time (IIRC, around 7%, which is higher than now) was still cheaper than renting, or at least on par. So it seemed a no-brainer, but I had no idea that Youtube would be continue to be successful, and that commercial property prices would explode, as there had been no previous history of that happening in Sydney. So it was a gamble, but I knew it had way more potential upside and limited financial downside.
And I'm currently thinking even longer term again, and am putting things in place now for that.