well why do so many tubes need several hundred volts, why were these super low voltage tubes not used in radio's, tv, etc ?
They weren't really up to the job, & there was really no advantage in their use.
Analog TVs in particular, need to produce fairly serious power in the horizontal & vertical scanning circuits.
The easiest way to get such power is to use higher voltages & full sized tubes.
Conventional Superhet radio receivers used compound tubes in their mixer stages, which could both do the mixing and provide the local oscillator function.
Very hard to do with sub-subminiature tubes, as was the audio output requirement of, commonly, several watts.
The gain of even full sized tubes with low anode voltages was low, & it was not till the 1960s that tubes designed to operate with anode voltages of around 12v with enough gain to be used in the RF & IF stages of car radios were developed.(this allowed the car 12volt battery to run everything.)
Those radios had solid state audio output stages, as power was too hard to obtain with tubes at such low voltages, whereas power transistors were designed for such service.