I am very interested in the topic as well.
My maximum budget is 2000 dollars. I will use it mainly for hand soldering 0402 downwards in prototypes.
2+3) I wear glasses, I am nearsighted, so I need to take off glasses any time I solder
How about a Mantis Compact? Allows you to keep your glasses on and look in front of you. Don't know the world wide prices, but got one in NL a couple of months ago for about 1300 euro (excl VAT) + 78 euro for a 4x magnification lens. (price offer I got for the lenses was : 2x mag €182, 4x €78, 6x €125, 8x 310 ).
Dave has a review on it's bigger brother (
), the Mantis Elite (main difference is the Elite supports up to 20x magnification and has a rotatingmount for swapping between 2 lenses). Altough swapping them out on the compact is easy enough, just rotate half a turn and it comes of.
This is what a 44-TQFP looks like with the 4x lens wacked on (and don't forget it's a lot scharper when you look though it, taking pictures of it just doesnt do it justice ). So i guess that with a 6x or 8x on it, even Stevie Wonder could solder 0201