Hey, please try not to introduce dead cats. Just stick with the ultra-simple circuit we were discussing: PSU->cap->res->return.
So, if no energy is passed from one side to the other, what is the resistor burning?
Hang on... O. M. G.... Maybe you are converting to aetherwind?
Joking aside, explain how the resistor can show a voltage across it and sink some current. Where is that coming from?
No energy passes from one side of the capacitor to the other. Energy is being stored in the capacitor.
Current will from from the source in to capacitor through wires and obviously through the resistor that is also a wire.
Current will decrease as the capacitor is charged until no current flows as capacitor is full.
Say capacitor when discharged start with 1000 free electrons on one plate and 1000 electrons on the other plate.
When battery is connected to capacitor if you connect just the positive nothing will happen same if you connect just the negative.
When battery is connected to capacitor on both sides electrons will flow from battery in to the wire and when that happen there will be an electron wave that will push out electrons on the other side of the wire in to the capacitor plate while at the same time electrons from the other plate will get out of the capacitor plate in to the wire and that will push electrons in to battery.
At the end when capacitor potential equal battery potential current flow stops.
At this point you may have 1100 electrons on one plate and 900 electrons on the opposite plate.
The 100 extra electrons are due to battery pushing those through the wire and the deficit of electrons on the other plate when trough wire in to battery.
No electrons have traveled through the capacitor dielectric.
Now the capacitor contains energy that can be used to do work. So you will say energy flowed in the capacitor where it is stored not through capacitor.