I would love to blame one side or the other but they BOTH do it, and they BOTH claim that only the other side is doing it, or that the other side is worse.
And the worst part is that they defend against this reality with accusations of "whataboutism". As if that's some sort of legitimate refutation of actual facts. That your opposition did something wrong does not justify your own wrong behavior, but you'd never know that to read or listen to these shriekers.
The good news is that I'm reading and hearing many more people saying what you are. That they see through the smokescreen, they recognize the hypocrisy. I'm optimistic that people are waking up, ignoring the spins from both sides, and realizing that their neighbors aren't the problem. Politicians and their media are the problem, seeking to pit we regular folk against each other.
I've travelled all over the world, to many countries under many different forms of government, and the
people are all the same. They love their families, they work hard, they pursue their dreams just like everyone else. It's the politicians who screw things up. It appears to be a universal constant. Yet here in the States, we have a federal recividism - er, excuse me, reelection - rate of over 90%. We truly get the government we deserve.