Oh the fun of having a landlord.
ESD is generally not as much of a problem as people make out. Often you're not working on things that are easily broken and developing an intuitive way of touching things helps a lot. I cannot recall damaging anything from Static discharge (esd) myself, when I reach for any part of a computer I always touch the metal with my hand first, not the chips or edge connectors. Always touching the case first shorts out the static ZAP if there is one, leaving you safe to poke at the item.
The other BIG fix is that heater, does it work ? Great if it does. Static electricity hates humidity. You can put an end to static damaged parts in a whole company by installing a humidifier in the building. The higher humidity just makes it harder everywhere in the building for static charges to build up.
So if you are going to handle something expensive, and you are not sure, then hang a wet towel over the heater or hang up some wet washing in the room and that will help raise the humidity in the room and make it BETTER at ESD protection that 50 kilometers of curly leashes ever would.
Definitely some myths here ^.
- If it still works, there's no problem.
- High humidity solves ESD (you can still create charges ~ 1.5kV just sitting in your chair in 90% RH for example).
- If you don't touch it/handle it correctly, no ESD event will occur.
There's some other issues with your post, such as touching grounded metal. Yes, it bleeds any charge you may carry at that time, but once you let go, any subsequent charge has nowhere to go other than the electronics you're handling. For it to work continuously, you'd have to hold onto grounded metal at all times. And this can be a safety issue for you due to the fast rate of discharge (1M resistor in the path slows the discharge rate).
Finished products and some IC's do contain ESD protection devices/circuits, but simple active devices such as a MOSFET do not, and can be damaged with as little as a 10V discharge (may still work, but it won't last as long and/or may not meet it's specifications due to the damage).
I'd recommend giving
Fundamentals of ESD a read (.pdf; might want to pay close attention to the tables on the first couple of pages if you want to discover just how easy it is to build up a suitable charge to damage or kill devices).
You don't have to go nuts to put together a suitable ESD solution. For a hobbyist, a proper ESD mat (2 layer rubber versions can handle molten solder) and wrist strap properly connected will be sufficient. A smaller mat, say the size of a dining table place mat (~60cm x 90cm for example), can cut your costs to some extent. It's on the heavy side, so be prepared on shipping costs.