Notice also the Crew Dragon has a stick, and there are also buttons for certain functions on the arm rest, where they would be relatively easy to hit while under high G loads. And also notice that the right-hand seat has the buttons on the left side, and the left seat has the buttons on the right armrest. So either person can access the buttons on the other person's seat. This is most definitely not something that was rushed through, the details have been well thought out.