Well, I consider those web sites themselves stalkers.
They get their information from a mix of search engines, paid customer databases (yes, surprise, many companies actually sell their customers' info), etc.
Unless they provide a means for you to ask them to remove your information (something that they would offer only if they are forced to by law, depending on your country and the country those sites are based in...), I don't think there is much you can do except harass them until they delete your profile... if you live in the USA and the web site is based in the USA, you may stand a small chance. Maybe.
Unfortunately, even the "right to be forgotten" (
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Right_to_be_forgotten ) that is not much more than just ideas in most cases as of now only really deals with information that could "harm" people. Remains to be seen whether your phone or address could be considered harmful information...
Don't forget that Facebook and the like, even if they don't share such private information (except when they get hacked
), are still already dream land for stalkers...
So good luck and let us know how that goes...
To get you started:
https://www.whitepages.com/data-policyTo me it's unclear whether you have any possibility of having your information deleted, unless you are the one who provided it to them (if I got it correctly...)