I would advise you guys to never start playing with HV stuff. Natural selection is always ready and waiting.
Can't say as I've ever grabbed the wrong end of a soldering in all the years I've been using one. Always use the stand!
"Natural selection" my bum!
I've played around with more HV stuff than I care to remember,& I've grabbed the wrong end of an iron.
The hazards of HV are of another level completely,& most people know this.
The worst you are going to get by grabbing the wrong end of an iron is a nasty burn,& once you have done it,you are very unlikely to repeat the experience.
There are other things you can do,though!
Back in the day,a popular iron in Oz was the "Scope" brand.
These used a carbon element which was pressed against the back of the copper tip when a ring around the handle was pushed forward.giving"instant heat".
They were really quite good for valve type equipment,as you could manoeuvre the cold iron between a spiderweb of components,& only have heat when you needed it.
They could also solder quite large terminals & the like.
The downside was that the carbon elements would eventually become too short to make the connection,so that you sat there for a while,before you realised you weren't going to get any heat!
I,and some others developed the habit of testing the iron by holding it fairly close to our faces & waiting to feel the heat from the tip.
One one occasion,I misjudged the distance & placed the iron tip on the tip of my noise---Gee,that made my eyes water!
No lasting agony,though,as human noses aren't very sensitive to pain.
Back when I thought I could learn car bodywork from a book,I was continually picking up the hot end of gas welding rods,whilst attempting to fix rust on an old car.
In one magazine,it was suggested that I bend the cold end into a hook shape so I would know which was which.
This worked well for a while,until I got the "hook" caught under a wheel arch.
Impatiently,I jerked on the rod,it came loose & my hand swung into the very hot outside "feather" of the Oxy -Acetylene flame.
Now,
that hurt!
You can forget your "fancy pants" solder tips!!!!