Andrew, I presume you have told people here that the article you posted a link to is in fact yours?
Hint: You might want to take the Wix default template stuff out of the bottom of the page.
I am going to guess that you have done some work with SMPS and not a lot else? VHDL / Verilog is NOT software, it is a hardware description language, and whilst you could learn chip design and make an ASIC from an FPGA, it'd cost you an arm, kidney and bollock to do so, so as a lone engineer it is not attainable...yet.
I have a HND in software engineering, and self taught electronics engineer, which I do as a primary job, software engineering comes in a close 2nd as 99% of my stuff is uC driven and I write boiler plate code to prove the HW is working, as well as writing desktop, mobile and web apps (the joys of "IoT")
I wouldn't expect a software engineer to know about polarity of power supplies or where to plug things and certainly not what something does or how it works, if they do, then great, if not then you can't expect otherwise just because you perceive hardware as easier, they perceive software as easier as it is what they do!
It's like a plumber telling an electrician that plumbing is easier than electrics, sure it is for a plumber, not for an electrician though.
There are still a good few electronics jobs around in the UK, it just depends what you want to do, if you want to learn how to use an FPGA then there are a few tutorials around to help you get started.
There are no "lesser" EE's there are different skillsets, with electronics, same as software, you never stop learning, there is always a new industry to apply your knowledge to, something you never thought would need EE or SE skills are suddenly relevant to you.
If you have never designed a power supply then you wouldn't be expected to design one that works first time or works 100% as intended, sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't. if you've never designed with a uC, you may well forget about the reset line needed to be pulled high or low, or the programming header etc.
Most FPGA vendors will supply a toolchain for some of their parts for free, some now even offer free tools for mid range FPGAs which you can do a fair bit with.
You can get a FPGA dev kit just as easily as you can get a uC dev kit these days, one of the most common hobbyist uses for an FPGA / CPLD is to emulate older console / computer hardware, like proprietary chipsets used in older machines, and then chuck in a 6502 / Z80 /68000 core for good measure and you suddenly have an SoC, or a major part of it.
The most difficult thing these days I find is knowing what to use and which particular device to use, there are so bloody many to choose from!