@RoGeorge, just to let you know that you are not alone.
The only critic I would move to Lewin is in its use of the word "potential" even when the quantity is not defined because it is multivalued. I wonder if his demo would have had a better reception had he used the word "glorp" or "multivalued potential" to describe it.
In his followup video titled "Believing and Science are Very Different" (youtube code watch?v=wz_GqO-Urk4) he also shows a conceptual diagram (I am not calling it a schematic on purpose) demonstrating how the equations give exactly that result: the 'multivalued potential' at the very same pair of points to have two different distinct values at the same time.
It is also possible to push that diagram even further by dragging a voltmeter (and its probes) inside the loop and seeing how the 'multivalued potential' between those two points varies with continuity from +0.9V to -0.1V, as the fraction of the area of the loop containing the voltmeter path goes from 0% to 100% of the area of the loop with both resistors (and the changing magnetic field). And there is also a video made by a detractor (sorry, maybe this is not the right term, opponent might be better) of Lewin that shows just this [note1]... actually confirming Lewin's modeling of the system.
I cannot but wonder what causes this resistance... pun intended... to accept the consequence of the loss of irrotationality (is this even a word?)
I guess one reason is that we place too much faith in our instruments and we tend to believe the numbers they show have a meaning no matter what.
Another might be the difficulty in realizing that the resistor are INSIDE the secondary of the imaginary transformer. So, goodbye lumped component model...
Or probably engineering courses have to cram too much material and leave out too much of the basics, concentrating on the more pragmatic parts.
EDIT: corrected some of my lousy grammar and syntax, but not all.
Also, I would like to add that as long as the probes are outside of the loop (more specifically outside of the region at varying B field) there is no probing problem at all (you might have to worry about capacitive coupling with the mains, and RFI from RadioBoomBoom, but not about the field that is confined inside the loop. Also self inductance is negligible, as shown by Lewin in the aforementioned video.
[note1] Ironically, when we take the measurement path inside the loop, that's where we can interpret the results (changing from +0.9V to -0.1V) as the effect of 'bad probing' (now I have to take into account the intercepted flux). I guess that's the reason Lewin is staying outside, to avoid confusion.
Finally, maybe getting rid of the voltmeters and their probes, resorting to some other way to measure the 'voltage' across each resistor (placing an ammeter in the loop and using ohm's law?, using calorimetric measurements to infer the dissipated power? substituting the resistors with a voltage dependent light source and measuring the light output?) could help in removing the confusion).
Personally I like to think tiny angels are pushing electrons in the loop, producing a 1mA (oscillating) current. That would cause a 0.1V drop on the 100 ohm resistor and a 0.9V drop on the 900 ohm one. The fact that it's angels and not a generator allows the loop to be closed without anything between the resistors, and that show exactly why KVL is no longer valid. You have to mend it somehow by adding a distributed emf, but that does not remove the fact that KVL is broken.
If you do not believe in tiny angels, well you could use a varying magnetic field that stays all within the loop. A toroidal transformer, maybe?