Dave, one snarling aardvark does not speak for all of us, any more than does one sad, weary tinkerdwagon. Please note that I started and ended my response to you with words to the effect of
"please continue actual negotiations..." and bitseeker (the founder and closest thing any of us have to a leader) has kept the channels of communication open.
The TEAnonymous thread, like many things about any online community, "just happened". It was a bit of a mess, but it was our mess and we knew where the sinkholes were and mostly how to work around them. We didn't set out to make it happen... we just started hanging out there, because we felt safe letting it all hang out in that little corner of the internet. Part of that was the fact we mostly flew under the radar; but part of it was the whole "nerd herd" thing.
We always felt that under it all, the people who ran the place were fellow nerds, and no matter what, we'd be safe there.
Until we weren't.
Surely by saying "flew under the radar" you knew very well that all your off-topic talk would one day get you in trouble, as it was against the rules of the forum. And you are surprised that one day it got so off-topic that a bunch of fellow nerds complained? And IIRC, some of the people on this new group are actually in the list of reporters.
Again, I have created "special" groups for others in the past, like the cooking group. You could have just come to me and asked to have your own forum section and moderator, but no one ever did, you kept "flying under the radar" in one big prominent thread. Heck it could have been an invite only group.
I appreciate any and all legitimate attempts to negotiate with the community, even at this late date, but I refuse to validate the OFF-TOPIC argument in this context. This argument is pure diversion from one key point:
At the end of the day, it is the moderators' job to ACTIVELY identify OT threads and move them to the correct OT location if they start to become a problem in the main areas of discussion; not pin them to the top of a technical sub-forum and then use that as an excuse to start filleting the thread for being OT.
The flip side of your argument of "nobody asked to move the thread" (even though I most certainly did, and have shown so) is: not one member of the management bothered to investigate... to ASK WTF was going on before making a dog's breakfast of our community.
So still a colossal failure to moderate.
Please just let us have a bit of rest. Continuing to beleaguer us in this fashion while we're licking our wounds in the space we went to get away from it all will not improve morale in the least bit.
Following us here with yet another dose of the same old "it was your fault all along" argument hardly feels like taking any responsibility for that colossal failure to moderate, nor does it fill any of us with confidence that future moderation will be any better.
And it certainly does not help rebuild that feeling of safety which was lost.
Thank you for your time, and please continue with actual negotiations;
mnem
*weary*
I'm going to ask
again:All we ever wanted was to be
left alone to play. If you place the TEAnonymous thread in the correct OT section, where it will not be bludgeoning those interested in On-Topic discussions, some of us might begin to peek in and contribute from time to time, once the bruises start to fade and the cuts stop bleeding. If it is made clear to the "complainers" that TEANonymous
is an OT thread and complaints purely about OT will be given exactly as much consideration as such frivolous complaints deserve, that would be a great start.
If the complainers want to have a
purely ON-TOPIC discussion about TE and their TE projects,
let them start such a thread instead of taking it away from the community who started TEAnonymous.We already did as you asked regarding the usual 3rd rail topics; even when we did touch on such points we made very certain it was only briefly and did not become long conversation. That I feel
is a reasonable compromise.
I loved the TEAnonymous thread... it was where my friends were, and it was where we played, and it was where I kept my toys. But as long as we have the threat of wholesale moderation of content
simply for being OT hanging over our heads, we will not feel it is safe to
just play... particularly when I compare what we posted to current content.
Thanks again for your time,
mnem